This exercise is based on tantra energy building – not relief of sexual tension.

You are best prepared for this by a relaxing bath, soft music and a nurturing environment.

Begin to masturbate – please yourself in your usual way or in a way that feels good.

Build up the pleasure for as long as it takes.

When you come close to orgasm, slow down or stop stimulating yourself, then squeeze your base or your buttocks.

Hold the squeeze as you breathe in deeply through the nose, and draw the sexual energy up your body and fill the top of your lungs. Hold this…

Breathe out slowly through your mouth, and make a slight or controlled hissing sounds with your toungue.

Relax your squeeze.

Return your breathing to normal and begin to stimulate yourself again. Build up the pleasure in your normal or an erotic way… before you go in orgasm or release, slow down or stop stimulating, squeeze tightly at the same time draw a deep breath in and upwards, through the nose, filling the top of your lungs.

Imagine the energy drawing up your body into your heart and filling your chest with warm heat.

Hold… let go and release your breath through your mouth, allow the sounds to escape with control… begin to stimulate again.. continue until you are about to burst with orgasm, then squeeze and breathe in and up to your heart.

Hold this for the count of three, then release the air and maintain the energy internally…

You may now relax and feel the energy you have moved from the sexual region into your body. You may now do as you please, stimulate yourself to orgasm, or just rest.

It doesn’t matter.

The exercise is done in a set of 3- If you feel like continuing – there is no harm..

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